Would we be lovers or fighters?

You are quite demanding today ViaFT. Just kidding of course. Is your chart the one first listed? Went to your compabitility chart and there are some good things but of course I saw some difficulties too. That Mars square Pluto is a tough aspect to master. This I am concerned with. Also Pluto is sitting on the 7th House of Marriage and Partnerships. Somebody's gonna want the power in this relationship that's for sure. The Venus conjunct Uranus could make the relationship tend to not be boring. And generally, generally now Venus/Uranus aspects can allow some "kinky-ness" in the bedroom. Many gays have Uranus placed aspecting Venus. No run of the mill sex here. Of course you could "battle" in the bedroom with that Mars/Pluto square. Where's my whip! Spank him into submission. lol lol again. With that Mars at the Nadir there may be anger issues that provide the foundation (4th House) in the relationship. Again Mars in 12th House. Somebody needs to "let go" of some anger issues with this placement. Could have a martyr with this position. Passive-agressive.. But the Mars/Pluto square is again a difficult aspect. Mars squares Sun.. Mars square Mercury. Then the Saturn/Sun opposition is very telling. Delays, depression, static, one "holding back" the other. Saturn can make the Sun person feel like they have to have "Father's" permission. Very restrictive aspect. Ok. This is my guess. There are positive aspects but there is just way too much Mars in this compatibility. If you are working together for a cause, a cure, a charity then all this energy could be put to good use. I just see alot of differences of opinion, arguments, and power struggles. Then the Saturn/Sun opposition will make one feel so "limited" at times. There is a feeling that every desire for movement and new things and ones individuality will be challenged and again, very slow-going for the Sun person. You don't want to be with your "Father." You want to be yourself without restriction. So, though the Sun/Neptune conjunction can mitigate these Mars/Pluto/Saturn issues, I just don't feel like it can diffuse all that Martian energy and the Pluto control of power. Sounds like alot of work to me. However, one learns through difficult aspects, but you don't want the crap beat out of you at every turn. Good to see you here again. I think I just used up too many brain cells. Burned too many out in my younger days. Bless you all. Edit: Just saw best answer remembering names. love that one about Sam. Still laughing! Skipping the R/S category as I have now had my laugh for the day! Thank you again.......Sam is it?........i th-th-th-think it is Sam? .......I th-th-th- think I might have a demon in my head? You're the best friend ever! Though i have never met you.....or have I? That damn bull... I am after whoever it is that told me that story. I will remember someday ........maybe?......I hope I can....LOL...LOL again gonna check your chart for Mars/Pluto square. I'm just not myself today. I think I am in love with that little guy named Jesus Jr and am so out-of-focus as one tends to get when in love. I think I love him Edit again: Look at your compatibility chart aspects at the very end it says Pluto squares Mars, though it is an "imperfect square" maybe I need to get my eyes checked. Oh my head.. I think there's ademon in it............You the best Venus is a Fly Trap You just make my day.